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Why You Shouldn’t Be Afraid To Do Things Alone.

I’m a loner, I love having adventures alone. I am the woman who’ll always be alone in a coffee shop drinking something or reading a book. I am the type of woman who takes herself out on dates by herself and does everything on her own. I am a woman who loves going to concerts alone and never feels awkward about it. Instead, I sing and have the best time of my life, like there’s no tomorrow.

As I’m growing older, I’ve realized that when you do things alone, you can also have a wonderful time. Yes, being surrounded by friends can be fun but there are many benefits of doing some activities alone without any company. Being alone is despised by many people, they see it as something bad. They always see you as “anti-social” or a “loser”, and that’s wrong.

A lot of people are afraid to do things and experience life alone. And yes, I was one of them and I realized that many, I missed out on so many things because I was afraid to do them alone. When I wanted to go somewhere, like a concert or a fun activity, I would beg my friends to go with me and if they refused to, I wouldn’t do it either.

This particular mindset pulled me bach on many things I wanted to do and experience, and now, I came to a point of my life where I’ll never let anyone or anything decide whether I should do something or not, if I desire it, I do it. And I do it alone.

When my mindset changed, I started living my life fully as I wanted and I’ve found it freeing and it made me happy. It made me happy to be on my own and having the ability to do whatever I want, whenever I want. And let me tell you, that’s the best feeling I’ve ever felt in my life, I’ve never thought that I’d be happy with myself, without needing anyone’s company.

In these previous not many years when I began to do things alone, I have encountered the best occasions of my life. I have gone climbing, bicycle riding, skydiving, bungee hopping, I’ve taken excursions alone and have gained extraordinary experiences.

I have figured out how to turn into my very own closest friend. I am the lady who decides to do fun things alone, doing things alone feels ordinary to me.

Honestly, not every person will need to go where you need to go, not every person will have similar interests, not every person is happy to step out their comfort zone. Try not to let these individuals keep you down on the off chance that they would prefer not to go along with you, at that point let them be. Try not to place your life on hold since others are not ready to would what you like to do. Try not to be reluctant to do things alone.



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