Strong women leave people confused, they don’t show their true selves to people in order to win them. They do it because they know that if someone doesn’t value you the way you are, you don’t need them.
Strong women know the value of their time. They know what to do in every situation. They keep it mysterious, they don’t answer quickly or share their secrets with anyone just because they’re engaging in an interesting conversation with them. They don’t give you any chance to fuck with them or ruin their lives.
A strong woman is able to control herself and her relationship if it’s important to her. While other girls allow their men to control their lives, strong women don’t.
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If you’re wondering why some women end up in healthy relationships and some of them don’t, ask them how much they value themselves.
If you need validation from someone in order to feel confident, you’ll never be able to be strong and face life alone.
If you’re not strong enough to leave an unhealthy relationship or to ignore when someone tries to bring you down with their toxic words in the name of love, you’ll end up always being damaged and hurt and you’ll always be with people who don’t really care about you.
If you don’t respect yourself first, you’ll never find someone who respects you in a relationship.
If you love yourself less than you love your significant other, you’ll lose yourself in the relationship and you’ll never be able to move on even if that person hurts you badly.
If you don’t know your worth and you don’t value yourself, you’ll never have what you truly deserve, you’ll always be in pain, you’ll always be the second choice.
If you don’t ask yourself the right questions, you’ll never be able to choose the right relationships for you. You’ll never be able to make the right decisions and choices.
But why don’t people want to be with you or like you and why are you basing your self-worth on what people think about you? Why don’t you like yourself?
We tend to choose the wrong people for us when we don’t have a good relationship with ourselves.
Strong women like everything about themselves, they don’t shame or underestimate themselves. Ask the other girls and they’ll tell you how insecure they are and how much they don’t like themselves.
If you want to change the ways your relationships work, you need to change how you look at yourself and know your true value. When you find a better relationship, change how you see yourself, stop being jealous, leave your insecurities behind, be happy with yourself. Then, you will find pure happiness because you’ll be happy and satisfied with yourself.
Things don’t just happen for no reason. Many of us think of our lives as reflections of what we allow. How we act and what we do to ourselves.
Strong women don’t end up in toxic relationships because they respect themselves enough to not allow those things to happen to them.